Emotional Balance
I have used Bach's Rescue Remedy for stressful times in the past, or mild anxiety and worry. Lately I have had success using a supplement called GABA calm in times when I have become irritable or irrational, due to personal struggles, or just with PMS. It has been working well for me. Raw Apple Cider Vinegar in water has also been an effective, immediate stress reliever but I often forget about it at those times. I am currently wrestling with some personal issues which keep nagging at me even though I've faced them and been doing much work on them. It's a journey and I've made progress. These aid in calming me when I find myself getting triggered by a thought, that makes me feel upset or irrational. These are like my defensive measures to put things in thier place!
Building Balanced Emotions:
I am also putting forth much effort in BUILDING my emotional balance (offensive measures!) and strength in these areas. I am dedicating effort from my mind, body and soul, towards gaining strength in these areas of my life. Some of these things are what I am using for immediate relief, while others are more long-term in thier approach.
1) Prayer and Self-Reflection
Prayer and self-reflection is certainly #1 and a daily measure that truly uplifts me when I open up to it. This is hard to do when we feel upset or angry, but it is SO successful for me at those very times, and usually does turn things around. I would also say that realizing my goals every day and re-affirming that I have made progress helps. This could also be called honesty and facing fears.
2) Self-Hypnosis:
One thing that has truly turned my life around is the 'Self-Hypnosis' approach, which in it's essence is kind of like affirmations to yourself. It is most effective if you are in a light trance state, such as when you 'daze' off while reading a book or just notice you were staring off into space. I have had great results using this to adjust my perspective on things, how I look at life, more positive attitude, confidence, even just that I'm going to have a good day, etc... And I am also trying to use it to build more security and trust pertaining to these issues I am working on currently. I recommend an old but good book called simply, "Self-Hypnosis' (or 'A guide to') written in the 60's. I read this book a few years ago and it was enlightening for me. It is very simple to implement in one's life for any reason! Please don't confuse this method with the 'law of attraction' or something like that. They could be connected, but this is not about gaining
anything material, but more about re-wiring your subconcious mindset to healthier habits and thought processes. It isn't new age it is just about building a better mindset.
3) Flower Essences
Another thing I decided to do for myself was to try out the Bach Flower Essences. If you research these essences, you will find that each one addresses a particular area of the human condition. Things such as pain, lack of confidence, specific emotional isssues, security, inspiration, etc. I can't say how it works, though I read that the flower's vibrational essence is imprinted into the water/alchohol, and that it helps to unblock the blocked or unbalanced emotion. After years of using Rescue Remedy, I am going to give them a try. I will report back on how it's going.
4: Writing, Prayer, Self-Reflection
One other thing which is commonly promoted is journaling, or writing. I have been writing down positive things whenever I can, pertaining to the things I am struggling with. I also have decided to try to write the things I want to communicate to my partner rather than have heavy discussions which aren't always neutral on my side. Until I can gain more balance at least.
5) Hormonal Balance
Monthly cycle does effect the hormones, and I am trying to pay attention to this and add supplements which can help to keep things more balanced. I haven't gotten it totally down yet. So far I am using Calcium/Magnesium, Black Cohosh, eating well, and might try Evening Primrose Oil as well.
I feel that these practices might help to take the rough edges off and finally I can truly gain grounding from letting these things nag at me when I feel I've put them to rest long ago. Or, if I am suffering from the monthly cycle and all of it's unbalances. I am no expert, just sharing some of my experiences and willing to learn more.
I recall seeing a subject for 'batting abuse or battling your demons' and was going to list this under that thread. But I would like to suggest a page for 'Emotional Balance'. I see a PMS page, a stress page and an anxiety page, but I would like to suggest one for Emotional Balance of these and other types. Either way, I hope that this helps someone and I am always willing to learn more!
EC: Actually, your post is perfect for the new body, mind, spirit page - thanks!
(Coloma, Mi)
08/04/2009
Who is the author of the book on self hypnosis?
(Tujunga, Ca)
08/05/2009
Hi Janice: The book is called: "Methods and Use of Hypnosis and Self-Hypnosis", by Bernard Hollander - 1957.
Fortunately enough, I was able to search the online catalog of my old neighborhood library. I also viewed the book-cover (which is a very cool 50's orange and white!) on a used book website, so I know this is the one. I am sure that there are tons of other fantastic books on the subject. I just tend to visit my local library and take whatever I get! I would like to note that the author had a very straight-forward, conversational style which stands up to the modern day. I recall that he was himself a counselour (or psychologist?) so it is not all as clinical a read as it sounds from the title.
(Bedford, Texas)
10/04/2010
Part way down ur post, I felt I was reading my own story. I am a very spiritual person, but God gave me this terrible... Temperament.... Which gets me in lots of trouble. Today, I said.... Pray.... Meditate... On temperament only for a while... Maybe that will get u some relief.
(Faithville, Us)
04/11/2015
Trials are ferilizer to faith.... stings a bit and kinda smelly but helps us grow.
Yes God allowed you to be tested by thoughts that show themselves as a terrible temperament for the purpose of learning to exercise faith to overcome it, as you learn the word , and grow in a deeper understanding of the kingdom, trusting him to walk with you in peace. Faith is what pleases God and trials are what challenges faith to grow. Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God.
When stuff happens in my life....I SING a joyful song and pray for someone else sufferring what I am going through . I magnify the Lord and it shrinks my circumstances in His LIGHT. I thank God that he trusted me to walk it out in FAITH . His estimation of my ability to face challenges is much higher than mine. He has already given us ALL AUTHORITY like a police with a badge/gun to stop the madness and enter the rest . Practice makes perfect Love. He is purifying our hearts by firey trials. He watches his gold being purified in the fire so only the debree is removed and the pure gold is left to reflect his image to the world.
Epigenetics
When you go to this link, scroll down to the bottom to find the audio interview:
http://theawareshow.com/s8/offer/lipton
Best to all, Lisa
Getting Over Heartbreak
Ho'oponono
Meditation
The meditation was to become integral with my shadow. This included slow and deep breathing, a visualization of my shadow sister and myself sitting together, and an energetic connection with the spirit. I called her into my room and I felt her presence. I had to face my truths and open up and accept my shadow as a part of me. I asked her a question about a deception that I was feeling from another person, then a great urge to take a nap came over me. When I came out of my meditation, I lay down to take a nap. During my sleep, my question was actually answered. When I awoke, I had a new agenda according to a truth that was revealed to me in my dream. One of the great things I learned about accepting my shadow and not fearing it, is that I actually have an ally who can help keep me from being deceived, just so long as I choose to remain integral with her :3 But the best part, is that since that meditation, my PID, my resentment, and my drinking problems have left my body. I'm now on a better path, and every time I start to feel negative, I just have to remember that I can meditate on a communication with shadow, and I can feel much better!!!
(Oswego, Il)
01/04/2011
I so believe in this. I beleive that God has given us all the ability to do anything, even heal, we just have to learn how to tap into this. Bless you for finding your way. God is so proud of you finding the path He has choose for you. Marilyn
Therapies
I read so much on here, I can't remember the section it was under.
(Somewhere, South America)
08/26/2011
PROBABLY THIS IS WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR:
Kinesiology - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Kinesiology, also known as human kinetics is the scientific study of human movement. Kinesiology addresses physiological, mechanical, and psychological
(Somewhere, Ga/usa)
08/27/2011
Thank you so much! Yes, this is what I was looking for. I had read about it somewhere on here and could not find it or remember the name.
Thanks again.
